What do you do when you catch your Girlfriend/Boyfriend cheating on you?

[Uncamitzi]

I know that this won't make you feel better now. H*LL it probably won't make you feel better later either.

Don't dwell on it. Move on, either with her or beyond her. Don't waste any time not loving. I'm the example of someone who did dwell on it and I was unhappy and lonely for almost 20 years. WhY? Because I thought of how bad it hurt, how or if to get revenge and just "oh my... nobody loves me... " Get on with it. I'll not offer advise as to if it is right or wrong for someone to cheat. That would be a moral judgement.

[GreenMarine]

Originally posted by Aredubjay
Mike,
You know how to IM me, PM me, email me and, how to call me. Don't know if I can be of any help, but, if you just need to vent, I'm here for ya, bud.

Randy's cool....


"18 year old trapped in a 49 yearold's body"

I believe that man

[SSSVX]

like everybody said, move on, mike! don't get yourself influenced by that...if you can do that, you're cool. sometimes it's harder to say than do it....but...!!

i think you're a good man...i don't know you that well. i only met you once at the reading iii. based on what i have seen how much you taken care of your svx... and your svx's room is so neat. you're a smart guy...caring, thoughtful(like kelli said).....

so do what you need to do at this time. focus!! don't get influenced by that....sometimes i am really an emotional person, i'm pretty bad at managing myself and get lost often or when i had this kind of problems, i would be stuck in there....well, time can heal but don't waste too much time on that. ..i'm getting better and better on this i think i took a long time to overcome this problem... i think my process was so slow, long, painful. you must do it better...

if that happens to you from her, you know, it might happen to somebody from her again...if you have done nothing wrong, why do u need to get upset on that? that's not your loss. take care, svx bud!

you could always get with her friends, sort of mean, but if it works to make you feel better, then it works...

its a terrible situation though

[SubaSteevo]

Originally posted by marioej25
you could always get with her friends, sort of mean, but if it works to make you feel better, then it works...

its a terrible situation though

and her friends' friends, and maybe even their friends too

Originally posted by BurgundyBeast


and her friends' friends, and maybe even their friends too

ooooh, good idea, i think i have to go out now