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[Guard-TL-]

last night


her (10:53:43 PM): sorry
GUTzu 03 (10:53:56 PM): don't worry about it
her (10:54:12 PM): i just got in from baby sitting
GUTzu 03 (10:54:24 PM): okey
her (10:54:47 PM): so0o0o what do u have to talk to me about
GUTzu 03 (10:55:00 PM): i want to talk in person
her (10:55:26 PM): ok look i have to tell you something
her (10:55:48 PM): you the boyfriend typ
her (10:56:08 PM): the typ that a girl can trust and really fall in love wit
her (10:56:44 PM): you still there
GUTzu 03 (10:56:56 PM): i'm waiting
her (10:57:40 PM): ok well look i'm not lookin for a boyfriend i'm just lookin to chill and i don't want you to think that i don't like you or what ever its not even that
GUTzu 03 (10:57:54 PM): i always understood that
GUTzu 03 (10:57:56 PM): but
GUTzu 03 (10:58:06 PM): i also don't like being comletly ignored
her (10:58:51 PM): babe your a sweet heart and i really care for you and i felt like i was really fallin for you and i con't have that right now
her (10:59:26 PM): i don't mean to i'm just livin for the day you know what ever the next day brings is what ever
GUTzu 03 (10:59:46 PM): okey
her (10:59:56 PM): i'm really sorry
her (11:01:19 PM): but i cant fall for no one right now this is my time and i know thats sounds a lil self indulged but thats just the way it is
her (11:02:47 PM): i try way to hard to stop myself form fallin for boys b/c right not i feel that i cant give them al that they need and i cant make them happy so00o i just move on not that i like it i would still like to be friends but thats up to you now
GUTzu 03 (11:03:09 PM): listen
GUTzu 03 (11:03:54 PM): okey...maybe not
GUTzu 03 (11:04:02 PM): i have nothing to say
GUTzu 03 (11:04:21 PM): i'll talk to you in person
her (11:04:25 PM): say what you wanted to say
GUTzu 03 (11:04:25 PM): **** AIM'
her (11:04:45 PM): i hate talkin in person please just tell me now
GUTzu 03 (11:04:53 PM): i can't
GUTzu 03 (11:05:17 PM): i'm sorry
GUTzu 03 (11:05:34 PM): i can't put it in typing
her (11:06:34 PM): its ok don't apologize to me i'm the ass hole
GUTzu 03 (11:06:44 PM): no
GUTzu 03 (11:06:54 PM): I took those first days for a little too much
GUTzu 03 (11:07:03 PM): I understand
her (11:08:02 PM): no i'll talk to you in person u don't understand
GUTzu 03 (11:08:13 PM): bah...
GUTzu 03 (11:08:14 PM): i dop
GUTzu 03 (11:08:16 PM): do
GUTzu 03 (11:08:22 PM): i got the point a few days ago
GUTzu 03 (11:08:25 PM): but still
her (11:08:56 PM): no its not like that
GUTzu 03 (11:09:04 PM): like what
her (11:09:52 PM): look i like you alot and if i wanted a boyfriend it wold be u but thats not what i need right now i really really like you and i just cant be with anyone person right now
GUTzu 03 (11:12:37 PM): see......I just read that about 20 times....and I still don't know how to respond
her (11:13:23 PM): just do what ever one does tell me i'm a ***** and that you hate me and that you don't want to be my friend
GUTzu 03 (11:13:51 PM): i can never
her (11:17:36 PM): thats a 1st
GUTzu 03 (11:18:26 PM): it's a sad life you live
her (11:19:01 PM): lol i know


I couldn't talk after that......


We were going out for a few months, everything was great. But then a few days ago she just completely shut off........

I really don't understand

[NapaBavarian]

She's a girl, your not suposed to understand... And she sounds insecure.

[n00b on demand]

Same thing happened to me last year. Everything was going great and then all of a sudden everything ended for the exact same reasons. I didnt get it either ...still don't and i dont think i ever will. Girls can be strange sometimes. But hey ppl have feelings.

[Guard-TL-]

I'm gona see her tonight after school. It can't be helped, we work at the same job. So should I even try to talk to her, or should I just let her be........I have things to say....but I don't know

[n00b on demand]

well be nice to her. Dont say anythig messed up. If you get a chance to talk to her just be calm and tell her how you are feeling. But whatever you do dont be an ass. That will just make things worse.

[majeskyb]

My wife did something like this while we were dating. I don't know if it's the same reason or not, but she kept telling me we weren't together or anything. Then she told me she just wanted to be friends. The reason that I get now, is that she was scared of being with anybody and didn't want to hurt me by letting me get too attached. This happened three times, and everytime, about a month later, she begged me to be with her again. I know a lot of people wouldn't put up with what I did, but I did, and now we're happily married. Not saying it's the same situation, just trying to give an idea to ponder

[Earthworm]

Either that or they already have someone (or more) else lined up who usually treats them like crap and that's why they come back.

[Seraph]

is she under 23?

[Alycone]

^^ I assume she is (based on her typing and his DOB).

[Subafreak]

Well my advice would be....not to listen to anything I say about relationships.

[NikFu S.]

Just hold tight man.
She seems to just be in a confusing situation right now.

[Guard-TL-]

I should also say that most of my friends and coligs at work don't like her. And told me countless of times to stay away from her. And today I find out from one of my friends that she did a similar thing to someone else. So I came in to work very infuriated/depressed.......I tryed to ignore her as much as possible, but each time I saw her just pain...

is she under 23?

She's seventeen and moody as hell

Either that or they already have someone (or more) else lined up who usually treats them like crap and that's why they come back.

I have a feeling that's what it is.....



Thanks for your support guys.....

[Seraph]

Originally posted by Guard-TL-
She's seventeen and moody as hell

Yeah most girls don't get over that moody stage till they are in the mid twenties. By the time they are 30s, they want babies.

Yeah they grow up fast. Put it this way, we are not really suppose to understand women and they are supposed to be very hard to understand... so...

Go read men are from mars and women are from venus. That might help understand relationships. Give it some time.

[Alycone]

Originally posted by Seraph
Yeah most girls don't get over that moody stage till they are in the mid twenties. By the time they are 30s, they want babies.
...
Go read men are from mars and women are from venus. That might help understand relationships. Give it some time.

Great, guess I'm about over the moody stage then?

I dunno about the kid bit though, kids scare me.

According to that book, I'm from mars (or pluto).

[Landshark]

you're like what, 19?

put her out of your head and go hit everything that moves until you're 25.........then think about serious relationships.


...and watch out for moody girls like Alycone.