lost one of the most important people in my life my little brother on 14-4-2012

[aust92pearl]

as i'm sure some of you guys that i am friends with on Facebook have read ,

my 21 yr old little brother was found dead in his hotel room on Monday morning , and had been there since presumably Saturday afternoon

(as that was the last time he was seen on security footage in the hotel entering his room)

words cannot describe the sadness flowing through me at this time

i not only lost a brother i lost my best friend, my rock, my only male sibling, one of the only people that truly understood me .

if i was stuck in a hard place he was the rock that would force me to climb my way out of whatever i was going through , and persevere to accomplish my goals .


i have lost a few good friends over the last 10 years,
but as hard as they were to deal with,
this is by far the hardest thing i have had to come to terms with in my life time

and not just because of how i feel about the situation , i also have to watch my parents hearts breaking in front of me , they almost lost me 6 years ago , and have now lost their second born child

i cant even fathom how they must feel but i'm sure it is at least tenfold how i feel

[ensteele]

I am so sorry to hear this. Your parents are not supposed to see their children go before them. If they do, it must be so hard to deal with. I hope you can find true friends who will step up to the plate to help you in your true need now. Just remember that we are your family here as well, and will be here if we can help you some way. You and your brother are in my prayers and I hope you can feel our support.

[SilverSpear]

Originally Posted by ensteele

I am so sorry to hear this. Your parents are not supposed to see their children go before them. If they do, it must be so hard to deal with. I hope you can find true friends who will step up to the plate to help you in your true need now. Just remember that we are your family here as well, and will be here if we can help you some way. You and your brother are in my prayers and I hope you can feel our support.

So sorry to know about your loss, OMG only 21 years old, he is not supposed to go that young

I couldn't have said it better than Earl... may God give you strength to endure this difficult situation, all our prayers are with you.

[subeman90]

sorry to hear man. Prayers to you and the family.

[aust92pearl]

thank you guys it really means alot

[Sean486]

Sorry to hear this 21 is much too young.

[flamestone]

There's so many things not right about this world. This is clearly one of them.

Hope you've all got the strength to support each other during this horrible time.

[bx92svx]

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My heart and prayers go out to you and your parents.

I had my only childs funeral on November 17th, 2010 on what would have been her 32nd birthday so I know that pain no parent should ever feel.

Please consider going to The Compassionate Friends or some other support group when you are able, give it a few times for both you and your parents.

http://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx

I still believe our loved ones are around us, not here in our arms but you will feel him. Pay attention to your dreams, he just might visit.

Again, my thought and prayers go out to you & your family because I know there are no words....that's all I can offer

[92 SVX]

I too am sorry for your loss, I lost one of my little brothers in march of 08, he had just turned 25 he was in an auto accident.
That was one of the worst birthdays I have ever had.

[NikFu S.]

I understand how you feel, man. I lost my big sister about 6 years ago for no good reason. She was in her mid 20s.