damn its over..

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Originally Posted by Wikedjuggalo

Well recently someone I loved with all heart left me for someone else. I devoted all my love and felt something great. She kissed another guy and felt something. It was someone she went out with 4 years ago but they didnt feel anything. We were only together for a year and a half but it was a great year and a half.

She told me monday she kissed him sunday, she wanted a break to take a step back. I gave her space and left her alone. I didnt call and plead and beg or anything. She called me Friday and told me she wanted to date him, she just felt it wouldnt be fair to her or me if she didnt. She crushed me, for those 4 days I couldnt function, I couldnt eat, I couldnt sleep. The worst feeling in the world was waiting for those 4 days. I never felt something like that before. I told her when she said it was over that I loved her and hope she never fells the pain I felt when she did what she did to me. I wish that on no one. The guy is a no body doing nothing so its her loss. I have to look on the upside of life and know there is a reason for this. I feel in time I can get over this, I have started to eat and talking with friends more, but the pain is there. Last night was the only night in the past week almost I didnt wake up 10 times. I deleted all ways of contacting her, but


Damn its over...
Anyone else had someone leave them for another?

Sorry to hear about this Wicked.

What you are getting here is pretty sound advice. Deal with the pain and move on.

Depending on the level of love and commitment all break-ups are going to hurt. You just have to deal with that.

From experience I find that it is a lot easier to recover if you are the dumper rather than the dumpee. I've been both, and if you are the dumpee then your ego takes a hit as well as your heart. C'est la vie.

You are taking it admirably and like a man. You are also being correctly magnanimous about your ex's moving on. If you think about it, no matter how much you may have loved her in your good time together, if she was unable to give you the same commitment in return then it would not work out. So she did the right thing for you both in moving on.

Keep your pecker up. There are plenty of girls out there who would love to meet up with a genuine guy like you.

Joe