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What you are getting here is pretty sound advice. Deal with the pain and move on. Depending on the level of love and commitment all break-ups are going to hurt. You just have to deal with that. From experience I find that it is a lot easier to recover if you are the dumper rather than the dumpee. I've been both, and if you are the dumpee then your ego takes a hit as well as your heart. C'est la vie. You are taking it admirably and like a man. You are also being correctly magnanimous about your ex's moving on. If you think about it, no matter how much you may have loved her in your good time together, if she was unable to give you the same commitment in return then it would not work out. So she did the right thing for you both in moving on. Keep your pecker up. There are plenty of girls out there who would love to meet up with a genuine guy like you. Joe
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Thanks all for your comments, its hard. But I am trying to keep my head up. I find the hardest times so far are when I try to sleep, my head races with thoughts and also when I get up. Specially if I have a dream which I had 2 last night. I can't just toss everything out my head as I want to, I want to just erase the past year and half out my head so I don't feel the pain, but I can't. I was thinking about getting a 2nd job doing something to keep me busy after school. But I will have to see if I can do that and go to school. This is really hard.
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I know it's rough, but look on the bright side. You know that she was not as committed to the relationship as you believed sooner than later. You had some good times and now know more of what to look for in the future. It's an experience and I'm sure that you learned from it. I really don't know what to say about what happened to Earl. That's just foul. I know that people may grow apart and what not over the years...but to come back and try to destroy the other party....is just wrong. Last edited by Noir; 09-08-2008 at 09:36 AM. |
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how does a parking space lie?
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guess it depends on the engineer and painter. could be straight, could be slanted. some are wide while others are narrow. some take money and some are free. some are worn from heavy use and some are pristine.
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Re: damn its over..
are you sure you want to go there?
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Kenneth 1997 Subaru SVX LSi "Svetlana" #185 of 640 - 09/1996 - Polo Green Pearl - 34k miles 1992 Subaru SVX LS-L "Everett" #8738 - 01/1992 - Ebony Pearl - 139k miles - 5MT shifty - Sold 07/31/2011 1992 Subaru SVX LS-L "Sven" #1599 - 05/1991 - Claret - 168k miles - Traded 05/11/2005 2023 Subaru Crosstrek Limited CVT - Crystal White Pearl - 2.8k miles 2021 Subaru Forester 2.5i Limited CVT - Horizon Blue Pearl - 17k miles 2023 Volkswagen Jetta S 6MT - Pure White - 2.6k miles 2020 Hyundai Ioniq Limited EV - Ceramic White - 30k miles |
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whatever you do, don't completely forget it. By that I mean don't let her come back into your life with that whole "lets forget yesterday and see what happens tomorrow" speech. Always remember how easy it was for her to do this to you. Honestly, don't wait for her to come back, or for that matter let her come back, you will only be setting yourself up for another heartache. I'm not saying it isn't possible for some.... but it is very very rare that a 'second chance' works out. Personally, I know that every time I broke up, I was sure to make it a final decision and I've seen too many good people (male and female) hurt over and over again because the other one who they thought they loved couldn't make up their mind.
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Well my x is threatening to burn the "house we built together" down with me in it because she isnt getting her equity fast enough. $500 mth on a balance of 7k isnt all that long to me but in someone elses eyes it should be instant results. We will see when she gets busted for driving around without insurance and some wacky weed, guess who will be laughing their a$$ of for being the one in our marriage who did nothing "Can you bail me out of jail pleassssee, I will do anything" WHATEVER. Focus on your needs, what makes you happy and NEVER FORGET why it happened. Live and Learn, move on to better things and realize that your feelings are just as important as theirs, this is where my marriage failed because my feelings were on the back burner to all her issues. Good luck
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And she got the SVX which she let someone "else" drive now it has a rod knockingguess I must change my signature. Ex SVX trashed my mystery man throws rod. Thing is she is still driving around with it knocking like hell
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Sounds to me like anything more would have been court ordered but I'm guessing that still isn't good enough....... |
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