ABS accumulator valve relay

[fasteract7]

Reading a post or 2 I have seen that the ABS valve relay is described as a "usual relay". I have been getting intermittent code 10 so thought I'd change out this relay with a Bosch 30amp 5 prong one...it's a no go..each time I plugged it in, it would blow the 20 amp fuse in the interior kick panel box and I'd hear a little electrical pop when I plugged it in...

Anyone know of a relay other than OEM Subie that doesn't cause this ? Wierd 'cause Manual which shows how to test this relay describes what looks like a typical 5 prong relay??

THX