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Old 03-17-2004, 03:33 PM
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get intimate with her sister (if she has one) and all her friends. date them, take them out to places you never took her. continue to be nice to her as though she did you a favor. you'll feel much better.
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Old 03-17-2004, 03:53 PM
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mike, you know what i say!

sorry to hear about this


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Old 03-17-2004, 04:08 PM
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I'll jump on the bandwagon here and say go - just go.

IMO, expending the energy for revenge just shows he/she got to you, and makes common friends lean toward their side when they wouldn't otherwise. Finally, revenge seems fun in the short term, but a bit sophmoric with a few passing years.

In more years of being married than I have fingers and toes to count on, I've come to decide that trust (honesty, whatever) of your partner is more important than lust or love (altho the former sure is fun).
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Old 03-17-2004, 04:17 PM
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I've come to decide that trust (honesty, whatever) of your partner is more important than lust or love (altho the former sure is fun).

Amen to that (28 Years and counting ).
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Old 03-17-2004, 04:25 PM
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pack your bags and leave.

and don't bother to extract revenge on her, it just lowers yourself to her level and it may come back and bite you later.

besides, maybe there has been someone waiting in the wings patiently wanting to hook up with you.

then jump in your SVX and go to a few meets to help take your mind off her.
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Old 03-17-2004, 05:40 PM
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I agree with the others, Mike - dump him. No good can come from going further with a relationship that has no trust.
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Old 03-17-2004, 05:54 PM
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If it was a "relationship" : meaning it was exclusive and not an open relationship. I wouls dump them explain why and move on.
Cheating is the ONE thing I WILL NOT tolerate at all.
I desrve better than that and so does wveryone else.

If it was a more casual relationship then it is time to draw rules and boundaries. so a missunderstanding doesn't happen again.

my 2cents hope this helps and if you want to talk about it PM me and I'll help.

I usually end up playing matchmaker and pyschiatrist about relationships

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Old 03-17-2004, 06:11 PM
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Leave. In the unlikely event the relationship deserved a second chance, she lost it when she "denied it totally." Bill your STD checkup to her credit card.
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Old 03-17-2004, 07:32 PM
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Too wierd! I say as long as she practices safe sex with the others than screw it. Beside what is she gona say if you happen to hook up with some hotty one night? Nothing!

Then again I don't give a **** so don't take my advice.
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Old 03-17-2004, 07:39 PM
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The more I think about it, more bad memories kept rolling in. I am hoping that you are not the one who got burnt Mike. If you have asked your "significant other" straight up and like you said, if he did say there is nothing going on, just leave. If there was some other answer (but you have to read between the lines) and if there is a lot of investments (yes I treat relationships as investments) and if you truly think that there will be some return on your investments, then hold on for a little longer (just like stocks, relationships do go up and down). But this is a bad situation.

Listen to what many people have to say. In a similar situation, the first thing that got to me was "what is wrong with me". The burnt person will have self doubt for a while. It is normal. Apart from that, talk to your best bud. What ever you do, do not stay alone for a while. Keep yourself occupied. You have to go through the denial stage.

Apart from that, good luck. Oh, take a drive. That normally clear things up for me.
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time to hit the booze!

seriously, you'll meet a lot of people in your life. you probably just haven't found the 'ONE' yet. but at least you can still sample the goods, unlike some of us.
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Old 03-17-2004, 08:09 PM
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time to hit the booze!
Booze is a downer. not a good idea.
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Old 03-17-2004, 08:18 PM
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In a similar situation, the first thing that got to me was "what is wrong with me". The burnt person will have self doubt for a while. It is normal.
Lwin you really hit that one dead center. That's exactly how I feel right now. I've been keeping myself as busy as possible and i plan on having a lot of friends in from out of town next weekend for a party. Things will get better I'm sure... They're just kinda crappy right now.

Thanks so much for posting everything, guys (and gals). You're truly my friends.

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Old 03-17-2004, 09:43 PM
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It's nothing you did, it's all about her, and maybe you can take comfort in the fact that she'll cheat and lie to the next guy (or he'll cheat, whichever gender). Consider yourself lucky that you found out about it before you made a more serious commitment. Sorry this happened. Spend the money you spent on dates on stuff for yourself or your car.
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Old 03-18-2004, 09:55 AM
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know what i say mike, **** him! you are better then that!

i've told you a bunch of times, you are better looking, nicer, and more of a decent human being, don't take that shiot!

go out with some friends and relax, do something for you! don't even think about him, look where he is right now! (you know what i am saying, i am NOT going into details) better yet, cross him off the list in your mind and just worry about yourself, i know that is hard because you are such a caring guy who thinks of others all the time, but try your best

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