in the immortal words of Rodney King "Can't we all just get along???
ok as someone who had a disagreement with Larry III that was played out in the thread "I hate all other drivers"... it was squashed like gentlemen when all viewpoints were discussed...misunderstandings occur...also please keep in mind that the language used by certain groups (be it age,race,etc) among themselves may not be offensive to them but to outsiders it may seem downright offensive...
I don't claim to know the answer to this but as someone who has gone through this recently I felt I should say...er um write something...Squiggy