UPDATE:
It's been a little over a week and I put an additive in her (after the flush.) I've driven her 153 miles and not seeing alot of change.
This is good, (at least as far as I can tell she's not getting any worse!) I've been bombarded at work at the most opportune time, and havent been able to do much more than contemplate my choices. Bad weathers setting in so might be a few more days until I can do something. I've been looking into referrels for trustworthy shops, and have been given options other than closest dealer. They're at least an hour or more away, so its a necessity to wait for the end of the week.

Latest from the dealer: "If it was electrical you would be getting a 17 flash code from the dummy lights but we'll put her on the scanner if thats what you want." (Made sence so I haven't gone there).

Will keep in touch and appreciate your advice, suggestions, and jokes! *ambush* (LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE!)
Thanks all,