The mods you speak of don't seem like mods at all. At least not as much as it is just personalizing your car like everyone does. Especially concerning rims. I'm not sure why everyone considers the stock rims such a necessity, I think they are hideous and cheap looking. There are far better, tasteful options available. They don't have to look fast and furious.
There will be times you'll regret tinting the windows because it is really open and bright not tinted but I prefer not having the sun/heat dwelling on my long drives. Personal preference really.
62k is fantastic! Lucky you