I sent you a PM (private message) Ill help in any way that I can.
+1 to what hocrest said about the FWD light. It signifies that the vehicle is engaged in FWD mode, which is done by placing a fuse in the fwd slot that is located under the hood. (Im sure someone has a picture which shows exactly where it is, I cant take one right now...)
Good luck with the car. Ask questions before you trust a local mechanic with the car, and take good care of it. We like to know that they are in good hands
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Where in NY are you located?