The first thing I thought of when I started to read this thread is that you are looking for the wrong girl. If they care more about your car than you, I would not look back. There are so many different cars on the road now that it is hard to know what anything is anymore. If you like it, drive it. If not, sell it. Most of us don't care what others think, but have this car because of the features it has and the way it drives.
I'm single and when I drive my Corvette, most women don't give a rip either. The SVX is cheaper so you are better off going with the SVX and change where you are going to meet women.