[SubaSteevo]

Dengue,
I expected you to be a teenager afraid that you're losing your one true love, etc...then I looked at your profile and saw you were 37. This leads me to believe that your girlfriend probably is in her 30s as well.

A woman who has not matured past the spontanaety stage by her 30s is not worth your time. Mature people do not up and move and leave behind their "loved" ones for no reason. Keep your money, dump the girl, and find a new one.

Besides, she probably boinked half of Chicago while she was there.