[Landshark]

whenever my wife gets tired of me being in the garage too much messing with cars, or buying stuff for the cars, i tell her that "car guys" don't cheat. if she'd prefer, i could "work late" more often and not spend so much time on the vehicles.

therefore, find a woman who works on cars.

just trying to give you a smile. your situation really sucks, and its reprehensible what she did, especially considering you have children. she was being completely selfish - thinking only for herself, and what seemed fun or exciting to her at that moment, and not taking into account how it would affect the rest of her family. if it were me, i would have returned her selfishness kicking her *** to the curb, and moving on. its hard with kids involved, but would they be better off with parents in two different houses, or parents that stayed together and are miserable and don't trust each other?

keep your chin up, and i hope things get better for you in the future.