The point I'm trying to make is the "what if" and this mess pulls everyone down? I'd rather have some essentials water, food, shelter, ammo,etc. but will help my fellow neighbor if he needs it. I have debt just like everyone else here but do pay my bills on time, even though I cant get what i want right now. It is a matter of needs over wants. I need to keep a clear mind for the needs of my kids and myself. The ex will just lose it in my opinion
