Got it to go. Not perfect, but it looks ok. Looks great with the covering panel down, but when its up you can tell the lines don't quite line up...
Its a Jensen VM9021TS. Looks sharp, and has really good reviews. Only problem is the man at circuit city lied to me, and I DO need a cord. Well, he will be the one pulling it apart and getting it to fit back again, **** doing that again! I've never had to take 2 days on any radio install, especially just for the H/U! Boy what a nightmare.
I ended up making my hand do a contortionist thing through the whole where the ashtray was, and just sticking wire by wire down there. I also bent the rear brackets a little, like it says to for a WRX dual DIN install. After that I got it to go with minimal grunt work. Can't get in from any other angle, tried em all, so don't bother ripping your interior apart.
Now I can't get the damn kickpanel to go back in (the one on the drivers side that you remove to access the antenna). Stupid design.
Thanks guys, I'll try and get some pictures of it eventually.
Craig