For anyone interested, I'm picking up one today from Advance Auto Parts:
BWD Relay Part # R3054Z
I'm sure it can be found at any parts store, but I wanted to post this so people could see a picture of the actual part. Also, apparently it's a REALLY common relay as it's used in a ton of common makes (Toyota, Honda, Mitsubishi, etc.)
(not to be annoying, rather to be helpful, I'm going to cross post this in some other fuel pump relay threads just in case anyone is searching...)
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FWIW, turns out it was a loose ground wire on the FP module in the trunk.
