I just bought the 'Plantronics Voyager Pro plus' a few days ago. Pretty happy with it.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/tech-data/B0043EV20G
Even happier to have found it online at a reduced price rather than buying it in store while at Best Buy for $106.
I got it on Amazon and had it shipped 2 day air and it was still $17 cheaper.
This is probably one of the most douchiest sets money can buy, but nothing else comes close for comfort in this price range. I've read some reviews that claim the wearer forgets it is there, and I agree with them. Could be a touch louder in my car because of my exhaust, but it's not bad. Actually most of the reviews I've read are pretty spot-on.
I still have long hair, though, so it doesn't look so douchey on me since you can't really see it. :P
Your douchiness may vary.