here if there's no personal injury thay often don't write a report regardless of the damage. as for the other driver, not much to say. a few weeks ago someone almost backed into me from a space in the safeway parking lot. i caught up at a light and calmly told the driver to be more careful. she got mad at me, said "well, i looked before i backed up". after all, that is what's important, isn't it?!