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Originally Posted by Earthworm
Beer is not a solution, only a bandaid.
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Coming from an alcoholic family, I fully realize this. However, I need a banaid right now.
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Have you had a chance to talk about everything and determine how she came up with this decision?
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Yes and no. This has been brewing for months (started on election night, actually), and I'm definitely one to express myself, so we've talked
a lot. I think I know why she's unsure of her feelings of me, which basiclly involves a vicious cycle between my severe temper and her complete lack of responsibility, but even that excuse changes frequently. That, plus she's no longer attracted to me because I've gained a lot of weight over the last several years, due to my injury and change in careers. However, I have not yet found out why she seems unwilling to try to work through it together, by either counseling or whatever.
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Is there possibly another person in the picture?
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Entirely possible. She did admit to me that several weeks ago that she went out to lunch with a guy from her gym, but that absolutely nothing happened. If there is someone else, I doubt she would ever admit it. My prior girlfriend before her cheated on me, and I told her that if she ever did that to me, no matter the circumstances, we were through. I'd like to say that I know her well enough that she wouldn't do that, but she's just been gone so much lately with no real reason.
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You never refer to her as your wife so I'm assuming you're not married. Perhaps that's the problem...or that's her way of getting you to commit?
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Married six years this past January. It's just too hard to call her my wife right now, considering.