I cannot beleive we are even having this conversation. I would like to think that home dilemas such as "jiz" can be taken up with, such as Ron mentioned, Dr. Phil or Dear Abby (is she still around). As far as the SVX network is concerned, I would like to think that we share like a family and treat everyone with respect and enjoy our common bond (our car) but really does it have to go that far O/T. Think of this network as a mother and I know that I for one would not feel confortable talking about this subject matter with my mother, though I would discuss my car and it's details.
And on one more note I would like to say that I think that this situation has an all but obvious answer and I think some common sense could gracefully take care of the situation, not the SVX Network!

-G