I prefer the stock look. I have not seen anyone yet that has improved the overall appearance of the original design. I do prefer the 97 stock grille but consider that fully stock. However, I don't mind some mostly invisible mods or JDM items such as Koni struts with improved springs, powder coated disk calipers, slotted/drilled rotors with braided brake lines, alcyone hood emblem and/or rear garnish etc. I barf when I see spoilers other than stock except that I can tolerate the JDM version. I understand 5 and 6 speed MTs, but personally would prefer a Level 10 auto if necessary. Some aftermarket wheels are ok as long as they are 17 or 18 and have only 5 mounting holes.
Engine tweeks that slightly improve power output are also acceptable and I don't mind the Stebro exhaust when the stock needs to be replaced. It is a little loud at WOT, but during normal driving it sounds fine.
Just my 2 cents.
Lee