a couple of questions
 

ok so now i have no turn signals and no hazard lights i was looking though posts and the fuses are all ok so it must be a busted relay now can anyone help me with locating where it is so i can pull it out and fix this anoying problem

Seems that most electrical issues require probing on your own to resolve. Make sure you check ALL the fuses (including the 45A red "blocks" under the hood).

i will give it a shot i checked every fuse including the ones in the engine can anyone tell me where i can find that dang turn signal and hazzard relay i have been looking around but really don't know what i am looking for

Is under the dash. I've removed mine with out any tools. Its a black box with a two wire connector. Its mounted in the center to the metal brace above the brake pedal.

thanks i will take a look