not even remotely about a car
 

so, my girlfriend decides she has to leave me and move to chicago, so, off she goes, and shortly after that, decides this was not the brightest idea she ever had, (she is not always the brightest bulb on the tree).

So, now, I have to get her back here, but, it gonna cost me a ton to get her and all of her junk back down here, so I am selling a bunch of my dj equipment on ebay, and of course saving as much money as I can (I eat very light these days) but, that is not quite going to cut it, I thought about begging for money, but that is not really my style, although this is pretty close to it still.

So, I thought, here's an idea, tell everyone about a service that you will probably sign up for eventually anyhow, and get a 5 dollar referral, and you get a 10 dollar bonus for signing up (and using it once) the rub is, that you have to send 10 dollars to someone to get your 10 dollars, but, it seems to me, you and a friend both sign up, send each other 10 bucks, and then, you both get the 10 dollar bonus, simple. I've done it already it's pretty easy.

anyhow, it's called obopay, here is a link to their page so you can read about it first, then a link to the referral so you can sign up, and get me the 5 bucks.

www.obopay.com

https://tools.obopay.com/buttons/6lUZTf_ao_10

I actually feel pretty dirty posting stuff like this, but I really need the money, as it happens, I love this knucklehead of a girl. If this post due to it's salesy nature violates any sort of rules I apologize, and please remove it.

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leave girlfriend in Chicago, unless you're into misery and suffering.

no, i'm not sending you money.

that's sweet of you. thanks, and I didn't ask you to send me money.

jeezums, try being nice to a person once.

For me, if a girl did that to me, no matter how much I loved her, it would be on HER to get back to where she wanted to be.

Yes, I am that much of an ass.

Why did she move to Chicago? If she left on good terms for a new job or something I'd help. If she left on a whim, f her.

honestly there is a fine line between love and stupidity...... Actually maybe not. If my GF up and left and went to Chicago on a whim and then called me asking if she could come back my response would be, "So, how ' bout them Cubs?"

She left on her dime. She needs to come back on her dime. If you pay for her now, you will pay for her/it the rest of your life.

P.S. You expected Landshark to be nice for once??? What are you smoking?:lol::lol:

i'll be nice by offering advice - ask her nicely if she'll return your man-sack, then kick her to the curb.

thats a sweet move on your part, but think about this logically,(dont you dare say love doesnt need logic). she got herself into this situation out of her own free will, let her pull herself out of it. your were not put on this earth to pull people out of holes they dug for themselves. and another thing, i live in kenosha, a 45-55 min drive from chicago, and a 1 and a half hour train ride from downtown chicago, and ive spent alot of time there. my friend and i played guitar for 15 min before getting kicked out of navy pier enterance, and we didnt play one single song, we were setting up and practicing, tuning, and made 21 dollars, no lie. one night, i lost my wallet, and just put out my hat with 2 dollar bills and some change, and in one hour, made 35 dollars. she can get herself back there, and leave her stuff in someones care. trust me, she doesnt need you to get back, she just has to much pride. im not saying leave the girl, im saying let her deal with this. spend the money on a nice winter jacket, or a nice new stero, or a new intake for your car. something else.

I agree with the others that said = If she left on her own, let her get back on her own. If you bail her out, she will do it again. Why does she expect you to get her out of trouble that she got her self into? I would not sell a thing.

This is a pyramid scheme and a scam. Don't get yourself into this stupid scheme. You will only be sending someone else money. :o

Women are a PITA. Just don't get hooked, leave her there, and try to move on... with as much women as you can get :D

They deserve this :mad:

EDIT: When she comes back (if she does), well this is what I would do

http://img266.imageshack.us/img266/6466/spankingtl1.jpg

(did you ever think that she went there to see SOMEone?) :P

I was once foolish and in love, but now I've wised up(some people call me bitter). My ex-wife rode me like that, for 3 years. Now she's my ex-wife. Get the picture?

My girlfriend will try to pull stuff off like this every once in a while, but she's slowly learning. And she's becoming a better person because of it. She's realizing that she had better make more responsable decisions, because she will have to pick up the pieces of the bad ones, no one going to jump in and save her. It's hard, don't get me wrong. It's not like I like seeing her fail. But if she doesn't learn, she never will, and then she'll be one of those people you hear about that drives through the front wall of a convenience store, and is completely bewildered how it could have happened, because she'll never have had to develop common sense of her own.

Chances are, if she can't afford to get back, she can't afford to stay there either. So, she's using you as a way to avoid homelessness. I was blind to these things for quite some time, and everyone told me this and that, but oh no, I knew better. In reality, I think it's a realization that you must come to yourself, hopefully nothing major will happen before that which will end up costing you heavily.

Best of luck, but I'd buy your crap back off ebay.

A little confused... O.k she just up and left for Chicago ? And just left you there? I don't think she has much love then. If there was a good reason for moving then disregard that.

sounds like my ex..........It's like women function on what they feel in that moment and go and do something unreasonable......
If you are going to go get her...don't ask us for money....Be a man and handle your personal business...take a bus if you have to...take out a small loan...ask a family member.
And when she comes back....let HER show you she made the mistake...you do your normal thing and give her time to realize how stupid of a move it was.

Just my opinion.

My ex-gf believed in being spontaneous. In actuality, it was stupidity just with a better word usage.

The more I helped her out of bad situtations and less I was her boyfriend, and the more I was like her father. This led up to her not appreciating anything I did, that she can abuse the fact that I was there and take advantage of things.

This led up to the eventual damage to my car. A few months later we broke up, leaving me with a broken car and a broken spirit.

I've learned my lesson now. Signs like her bailing out to go to Chicago and needing help coming back strike a red flag for me. It doesn't make sense to just pick up and leave if she really loves you. Not trying to be mean, but it would have been very distressful to leave like that knowing it would upset you.